the one.
It’s been quite some time since i’ve written anything. haven’t had much time to keep up with my writing. i’m only doing this now because i woke up from a deep sleep thanks to all the thoughts up in my head and i’m still down with the flu. sorry, i haven’t been able to write the articles requested but just something that came across my mind now and i think i should write about it but i still promise i will write the articles that have been requested. will work on that. my schedule is currently abit messed up.
So what’s the topic this time? well, spending the night after awakening from my sleep then chatting with my daughter we came across the topic of “the one”. yes, refering to that particular person which most assume exist for them but it’ll just take time to meet him/her but you will never know or guess who it might be. I don’t disagree with her but its just my thoughts of it.
This is just my opinion of it. I believe that “the one” is just a figment of your imagination or something that drives you to keep going on and not give up. The main thing about this is, does it matter?
The whole dream about meeting the perfect man or woman seems unrealistic to me and also rather illogical but it remains as a drive to keep us going to believe in something. A miracle perhaps.
To me, its a fact that it is impossible to meet the perfect man or woman of your dreams because he/she just wont exist. Perfection doesn’t exist also how do you define a perfect as perfect? It’s like justifying what is good or bad? How do you justify it? A person is only seen as perfect in your eyes when you’re in love with the person as you see them being the best they can be and it compliments you.
There is just one important fact as for all relationships. You can never know if he or she is the one. But what’s important is how two people are together and they might not be completely perfect for each other but the important thing is as long they make each other happy. It’s how one can compliment another. Then all that matters is ensuring the both are happy with each other.
Just try this. It’s the simplest question. Just try asking any married couple ‘is their spouse anything like what they thought their dream guy/girl or ‘the one’ would be?’
Answers? close but not quite there or totally NOT.
Bottomline is, don’t go seeking for the perfect man/woman. The one could just be standing right in front of you and you wouldn’t even know it. What matters the most is being with someone that you both can ensure that you’ll be happy with each other for a long time.
Think about it.
This makes me think of a wedding i attended. The first time i was envious of something. I was watching this old couple probably in their 60’s or 70’s and they were waltzing together with ‘bryan adams – have you ever really loved a woman’ playing in the background. I envied it because you don’t see that often anymore. Old happy couples. Time may have caused them to age but that look in their eyes? Timeless…
