freedom.
Finally exams are over and i’m break for a month. Forget about worrying about results too late for that. I’ll spare the worrying til the day i collect them. Anyways, my plans are to NOT step into APIIT for as long as i can. Not gonna be in college for once from today. Correction. From Sunday onwards since tomorrow i still have to be in APIIT. It’s .NET day. Want to know more about it? Ask me personally. Don’t need to waste precious space here on that til i’m done with it and i’ll be telling you my experience with it. Blogging about it for sure. So i’m suppose to be celebrating freedom due to finishing my exams. Will start doing so once i’m out of APIIT. If you see any changes in me that very well explains it. Yes, i’m still in APIIT right now. Got some briefing and i’m getting out of here pronto!
Enough of celebrating my independence. I’ll spare the juicy topic for tonight. Look out for more articles from what some call the dating ’sifu’. haha. Laters.
9 ways to meet men.
Well, yet again i slacked off for quite some time. More things to attend to. Anyways, lots and lots of thinking today. Just thought about the dating scene after a conversation on issues of how to meet men. I don’t even know why people complain its so bloody hard when it actually isn’t at all.
So what’s in for today, it’s 9 ways to meet men or you can say guys. Whatever suits you best.
#1: Don’t set hard and fast rules.
Well, as for me this is simple, rules are meant to be broken. In this case just put that thought of i only can meet a certain type or i only do things my way. Explore the many ways of meeting men. Throw out rules such as you don’t go out with fixed up dates. Give things a shot.
#2: Don’t be shy. Make things happen.
Ditch being shy and just put out every bit of courage you have. For example, if you see that cute guy that you so totally have been drooling over and don’t have the guts. Time to suck it up and just bump into him or something. There’s only two possibilities of what could happen next and you have absolutely nothing to lose. It’s either things go well or he thinks you’re nuts.
#3: If you’re going to a party or clubbing, don’t go in wolf packs.
Ladies, don’t take the entire classroom out with you. Bad idea. Why? Because men just won’t walk up and strike up a conversation fearing that when he walks away the entire wolf pack is going to laugh at him. Go with a friend or make it three’s a charm. At least when you’re talking to him your friend has someone to talk to. Don’t scare him off with the entire group.
#4: Avoid dolling up.
Well, being all pretty is nice and boost your confidence but in reality its not good. This is for a simple fact that it screams out high maintainence. Not good. Try a cute tee with a cute statement or something like that to strike up a conversation. That draws good attention.
#5: Have a drink in hand.
It shows that you’re not expecting him to buy a drink. Then you can strike up a conversation once you’ve used the flirting move of smiling. If all goes well, he’ll buy you a refill.
#6: Don’t play hard to get.
Save that for the later stage. Yes, we know men love the chase but when it’s too early they just don’t bother approaching. Nowadays, men back off knowing there might be a chance of rejection. That’s why.
#7: When that cute guy crosses your path.
Just approach him. Don’t wait for the perfect timing. Don’t think of the perfect words to say. Just be yourself and bump into him. Ask a question thats logical even if you know the answer already. If it don’t work who cares. It’s still an opportunity.
#8: Be positive.
A man loves a woman who has confidence. When you show negativity its a turn off.
#9: Listen to what he has to say.
Most of the time we tend to get nervous talking to men. All you have to do is pay attention to what he says. Then think and you can give a good comment or ask the right questions and that keeps the conversation going.
Now that’s the 9 ways you can use to meet men. For those questioning why am i still single? It’s because i choose to do so. Reason? I’m meeting men but just haven’t come across one with the chemistry. That’s all. These methods are so far proven by personal experience. So stop wondering why am i single and writing stuff like this. Now you have a solid reason why.
Have a nice day!
three flirting moves.
Well, enough of all the emotional crap. So what’s in for today? It’s three flirting moves that never fail. Essential moves that always work like a charm. Somehow figured it out after some analyzing. So you’ve tried the pick up lines that never work. [there are some that do work.] Then comes worry there’s too much of a touchy feely situation and turning into a Samantha Jones. So here are the three essentials moves.
#1: Smile.
Doesn’t matter wherever you meet the person be it a bar, club or shopping mall a smile does wonders. It just can draw a person’s attention easily without fail. Also if you have already met the guy it still works as a friendly hello. Just make sure you’re pearly whites look great or just smile without showing off the teeth. Also create eye contact with the person you’re smiling at because you don’t want to end up communicating with the wrong person. If he smiles back you have achieved communication. Then you can start with small talk.
#2: Be the “Funny Girl”.
When it comes down to flirting, a little sense of humour can bring you a long way. Men love women who are confident enough to make a light hearted remark. Just don’t over do it. A little funny line would just do it. Avoid being corny or racy. If you manage to win even a slight laugh you’re doing good and can proceed with more small talk. Humour works as a great ice breaker. Just continue the talk with something relevant to topic or surroundings.
#3: Tempt him with a tease.
Now this is my favourite move. Just realized it actually. Well, men love challenges and teasing them is the best way to do it. Let’s say he’s good looking and everyone compliments him. Kick him down a notch. You could even try it on his dance moves, say hit a club and see how good he really is. Just make sure you don’t overdo it and end up being too sarcastic or insulting him. Also be prepared to be teased back. Don’t take criticism too hard as it is just a little tease. A tease isn’t common and it suggest that you can be exciting and kinda playful.
That’s the three moves to flirting that never fails. Trust me, i’ve tested it. Now, back to my ordinary ways of observing life forms. Have a nice day!
losing track of life.
hello once again. It’s been quite some time. Caught up with studying as well as working at the same time. Don’t try this it’s not easy unless you’re willing to sacrifice your social life. It’s pure insanity that i’m yet to understand and figure out. Well, i’m only doing this to make ends meet. From a more positive aspect i’m just being independent on my own. It’s not easy but i’ll just have to go through it.
It’s been a long week. Less work with the arc but there will be more events coming up also i’m heavy hearted to leave my reign for the past year. The ups and downs were certainly fun and the experience was priceless. I am stronger and a better person thanks to the experience as well as the wonderful team that i wouldn’t trade for the world. It’s not often you have a team of people that work so well together. I wish it could last forever but i don’t know how will that happen. Just wish everyone the best with each others lives. Simply amazing.
Well, i barely can understand what’s going on with me. Still trying to understand what the hell is going on. I’m resorting to being alone due to the fact the people that were once close to me are just being weird. It ends up being uncomfortable and i don’t really think i can turn to anyone about it. Thus, i rely so much on myself and sometimes thoughts can drown you and drive you insane. I’m losing track of life. Losing the zest of it yet searching for it. Feeling lost but yet know where i am. It’s confusing. Nothing seems like what it should be. It’s just balling out of control.
It struck my mind during the accident since the first thing that came across my mind was still him when i basically wiped it out of me. I thought i did. Then next thing was last night he just had to say the right words at the right time. It’s hard to be friends even if i want to. He asked why do i seem happy yet sad. Complete yet incomplete. The truth is i can hide it all if i want. I don’t say nothing to appear as strong as i can be but i’m only human. There’s only so much i can handle. Sometimes it drives me insane but i don’t know why i’m still here doing my thing. It’s weird.
I guess its just me with my life balling out of control. Still yet to understand why. I want to know why before i’m admitted into the psychiatric ward due to being driven insane by thoughts. Just searching for a reason. All i need to know is that. I want things to be what it used to be but i know it cant so all i ask is for a reason. Now i better give myself a break before i drive myself insane blogging. Good night.
life.
so it’s been awhile. I’ve been so caught up with work that i lost track of life. Last week was multicultural and i had my 1st time experience of being an emcee which was fun eventhough there were things that didn’t quite go our way but i guess it turned out good. The current ARC team is amazing i can’t imagine what it would be like when the next team comes in. Just hope that this current team doesn’t fall apart when that happens. We’ve grown so attached we’re like family. Let’s hope all goes well but multicultural was great.
Asides that, i finally got the opportunity to sit back and update my blog. I’ve been so caught up that i completely forgot and lost track. Well, yesterday was Merdeka. I went for a family friend’s wedding which was good. She looked amazing and most of all happy which was great. Then got to meet some other old friends which was great. I guess i’ve changed alot within the past year both physically and mentally. Physically mainly because i’ve shrunken down in sizes. Mentally its apart of maturing and growing up.
After that things didn’t go so well, ended up in an accident. Some dude overtook out of nowhere and ended up with a head on collision. For once, the man upstairs didn’t conspire against me and kept us all safe. But felt bad for that guy, he suffered a number of injuries but eventhough he’s at fault but wish him the best. Shit happens in life when you least expect it to. Just glad that the darn safety belt kept me intacted. Got a sore neck and shoulder but that’s okay. as long everyone’s alright.
The conclusion of that is when you discover who are your real friends who really do care. I know i’ve got them and i’m thankful. Anyways, going to crash now til the sore on my neck and shoulder goes down a bit. Take care.
To my friends,
thank you for being there. I appreciate it.
